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What happens when love is tested in the face of uncertainty?

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As a pastor, I've seen many couples struggle with the test of love in the face of uncertainty. When feelings are strong, it's easy to believe that love will conquer all, but when doubts creep in, it can be excruciating. I've counseled many young adults who insist on living together before marriage, thinking it will help them determine if their love is strong enough. But the statistics show that this approach often leads to a higher divorce rate.

The Bible teaches us that love is a responsibility, not just a feeling. It's a choice we make every day to prioritize our partner's needs and well-being. When we practice love as a responsibility, it can reignite feelings of joyous affection and strong passion. My wife Susan and I have been married for 19 years, and we've learned that love is not just a feeling, but a choice we make every day. We've had our ups and downs, but our commitment to each other has kept us strong.

When I think about the test of love, I'm reminded of the story of Abraham and Isaac. Abraham was willing to sacrifice his son, not because he didn't love him, but because he trusted God's plan. That's the kind of trust and commitment that's required in a loving relationship. When we're faced with uncertainty, we need to ask ourselves if we're willing to trust God's plan, even when it's hard. That's the kind of love that can weather any storm.

Sources:

letters of john
john stott
introduction biblical ethics
robertson mcquilkin
true sexual morality
daniel heimbach
meaning of marriage
timothy keller
right thinking in age of chaos
john macarthur
new testament background and message
thomas lea
proverbs
lindsay wilson
my utmost for his highest
oswald chambers

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