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Your Question:
What do I do when my family doesn't understand my struggles?
Answer:
As a pastor and a husband, I've seen my fair share of family struggles. When your family doesn't understand your struggles, it's essential to remember that you're not alone. In fact, Scripture tells us to go to our brother with problems and talk to him (Matthew 18:15). This means being vulnerable and open with your loved ones, even when it's difficult. When my wife Susan and I are struggling, we try to speak with one voice, even when we don't agree. We pray together, seek wise counsel, and listen to each other until we can come to a united decision. This helps us present a united front to our children and avoid confusion. I've learned that it's okay to not have all the answers and that sometimes, it's better to admit when we're unsure. By being honest and transparent, we create a safe space for our children to learn and grow. As a parent, it's essential to model how to disagree without being disagreeable. When my children, Joshua and Rebecca, come to us with their problems, we try to listen carefully and offer guidance without being judgmental. We remind them that we've made our own mistakes and that God was with us through those difficult times. By being patient and supportive, we help our children develop the skills they need to navigate their own struggles and learn from their mistakes.
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meaning of marriage
timothy keller
raising kids to follow christ
lee ann mancini
raising passionate jesus followers
phil diane comer
addictions a banquet in the grave
edward t welch
building dynamic faith
jerry falwell
depression
edward welch
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