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Your Question:
Can I ever forgive my family member for stealing from me?
Answer:
Forgiveness is a process that requires humility and a willingness to let go of our desire for revenge. As I reflect on my own experiences with unforgiveness, I realize that it's often driven by a sense of superiority, thinking that I would never do something like stealing. But the truth is, we all have weaknesses and flaws, and forgiveness doesn't change whatever led to the failure. It can set punishment aside, but character is a question of behavior, whether we get punished or not. As a pastor, I've seen the devastating effects of unforgiveness in families. It's a pattern that can be passed down through generations, causing a major breach in family ties. But forgiveness doesn't have to be a one-time decision; it's a process that requires effort and commitment. It's not just about saying "yes" to forgiveness, but also about creating space for the victim to share their hurt and pain, and making restitution if necessary. Forgiveness is not about making the guilty party pay for their actions, but about releasing the burden of resentment and anger. It's a costly sacrifice, but one that can bring healing and restoration to individuals and families. As Jesus teaches, we are to forgive others as our heavenly Father forgives us (Matthew 6:14-15). This means that we must be willing to let go of our desire for revenge and instead choose to forgive, even when it's difficult.
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edward t welch
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