Forgiveness can be a challenging process, especially when we feel let down by someone, including a doctor who wasn't able to fix us. As a pastor, I've seen many people struggle with feelings of anger, resentment, and frustration when they don't get the outcome they desired. But forgiveness isn't about the other person; it's about us and how we choose to respond to the situation.
When it comes to forgiving a doctor, it's essential to remember that we are not God, and we can't control the outcome of medical treatment. We can, however, choose to forgive them for not being able to fix us, just as we would want them to forgive us if we were in a similar situation. Forgiveness doesn't mean condoning their actions or decisions, but rather releasing the negative emotions associated with the situation. It's about choosing to let go of the hurt and anger and moving forward with a sense of peace and closure.
As I reflect on the scriptures, I'm reminded of Psalm 103:2-3, which says, "Bless the Lord, O my soul, and all that is within me, bless his holy name. Bless the Lord, O my soul, and forget not all his benefits, who forgives all your iniquities, who heals all your diseases." In this passage, we're reminded that God is the one who forgives and heals, not us. So, when we're struggling to forgive a doctor, it might be helpful to shift our focus to God and His ability to heal and forgive us, rather than getting stuck on the doctor's inability to fix us.