Biblical Answer

Sex as a Gift from God

Sex is a gift from God, and we should accept it with gratitude. The Bible reveals that sex is a good thing, created by God to fulfill something basic in human nature. It satisfies truly and profoundly, although not in the final and perfect sense that comes only from knowing God himself. Sex was included in God's creation when he declared it was very good (Gen. 1:31). This implies that sex is a part of God's design for humanity, and it is good because it is from God.

God's Rules for Sex

When it comes to sexual behavior, we need to get more specific about what exactly we should do or not do to keep sex holy. Careful examination of scripture reveals there is structure in God's design for sex. The Bible teaches that sex is not just about physical pleasure, but also about emotional commitment and self-giving. Good sex is not just about feeling good, but also about being connected to the other person in a deep and meaningful way. This is why the Bible never allows using sex in worship as a way to reach God or to experience spiritual intimacy.

The Importance of Gratitude and Submission

As we enjoy the gift of sex, we must remember that it is a gift from God, and we should accept it with gratitude. We must not worship sex as God, nor should we honor sex in the place of God. We must submit to God's rules for sex, which are set by what pleases God, not by what pleases us. This means being careful to respect the boundaries and commitments that God has established for sex. By doing so, we can experience the good of sex as God intended, and we can also avoid the negative consequences of sin and disobedience. Ultimately, sex is a gift from God that should be received with gratitude and lived out in obedience to God's design.