Biblical Answer

The Connection between Forgiveness and Freedom

The connection between our forgiving and being forgiven is graphically expounded. The point is not so much that forgiving is a prior condition of being forgiven, but that forgiveness cannot be a one-time event. It is a process that requires practice and commitment. Forgiveness does not erase our memories, but it does mean not holding a person's sin against him. We must continually renew our commitment to forgive when feelings of resentment or bitterness well up within us. Forgiveness is not dependent on the actions of the offender, but rather on our own decision to forgive.

The Benefits of Forgiveness

Forgiveness has been linked to multiple positive mental and physical health outcomes. It can set us free from the weight of our past and allow us to move forward in a positive direction. Forgiveness does not change whatever weakness led to the failure, but it can set punishment aside. However, forgiveness does not come automatically, but only after confession and repentance. The New Testament teaches that a relationship with Christ begins with forgiveness, and that forgiveness is a gift from one undeserving soul to another.

Forgiveness as a Process

Forgiveness is not an event, but a process that requires practice and commitment. It is a decision we make to let go of our bitterness and resentment, and to choose to forgive others. This decision must be renewed continually, as feelings of resentment or bitterness well up within us. Forgiveness is not dependent on the actions of the offender, but rather on our own decision to forgive. By choosing to forgive, we can experience the freedom and healing that comes with forgiveness, and move forward in a positive direction.