Biblical Answer

Approaching Someone with Suicidal Thoughts

When talking to someone who is struggling with suicidal thoughts, it is essential to create a safe and non-judgmental space for them to express themselves. This means avoiding overreactions, which can often exacerbate the situation. Instead, focus on listening attentively and asking open-ended questions to encourage them to share their thoughts and feelings. A counselor at Anna's church handled the situation well by not overreacting and asking questions to understand her perspective.

It is also crucial to understand that suicidal thoughts are often a cry for help, and the person may not know how to address their feelings. They may feel isolated, hopeless, and unsure about what to do. As a Christian, you can offer hope and guidance by sharing the love and care of God. You can ask questions like "Have you talked to anyone about your feelings?" or "Have you considered reaching out to a trusted friend or family member for support?" This can help them feel more connected and less alone.

As you engage with the person, it is essential to address the underlying issues that may be contributing to their suicidal thoughts. This can involve exploring their relationship with God and how they perceive His presence in their life. You can ask questions like "Have you talked to God about your feelings?" or "Do you feel like God is distant or disconnected from your life?" By creating a safe space for them to explore their thoughts and feelings, you can help them begin to find hope and meaning in their life, and encourage them to seek help from a mental health professional if needed. Ultimately, your goal is to help them understand that they are not alone and that there is hope for a better tomorrow.