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Your Question:
How can I deal with the guilt of not being able to provide?
Answer:
As a pastor, I've seen many individuals struggle with feelings of guilt and inadequacy when they feel they're not providing for their loved ones. It's a heavy burden to carry, and it's essential to recognize that it's not a sign of weakness to admit that you need help. In fact, it's a sign of strength to acknowledge your limitations and seek support. My wife, Susan, and I have been married for 19 years, and I've learned that even in the midst of struggles, we can still pray for each other and seek God's deliverance. It's essential to remember that we're not alone in this struggle. Many men, including myself, feel the pressure of being the sole provider and can feel like failures when we can't meet those expectations. However, as Susan reminded me, our prayers can still be instrumental in seeking God's help and deliverance, even if our husbands are struggling with feelings of inadequacy. By standing strong in our faith and praying for each other, we can break free from the bondage of guilt and shame. When I feel like giving up, I take time to reflect on my own weaknesses and shortcomings. I try to focus on being thankful for my spouse and the blessings we have, rather than dwelling on our struggles. I also remind myself that it's not about being perfect; it's about being willing to take small steps of obedience and trust in God's sovereignty. By doing so, I can break free from the stronghold of obstinacy and learn to give God and others what I have, with all its blemishes and limitations.
Sources:
warranted christian belief
alvin plantinga
power of a praying wife
stormie omartian
my utmost for his highest
oswald chambers
sacred marriage
gary thomas
power of a praying parent
stormie omartian
christian theology
millard erickson
addictions a banquet in the grave
edward t welch
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