Biblical Answer

My friend, I can sense the pain and struggle in your words. As someone who has been married for 19 years, I can tell you that moving on from a difficult situation requires a willingness to identify and address the underlying issues. In my experience, it's not always easy to confront the root of the problem, but it's essential to doing so. Whether it's a pattern of behavior, a lack of communication, or unresolved conflicts, we must be willing to tackle these issues head-on if we want to move forward.

One of the key principles I've learned is the importance of forgiveness and understanding. When we hold onto unforgiveness, it can create a wedge between us and the person we're struggling with. As someone who has pastored a local evangelical church, I've seen firsthand the power of forgiveness and the impact it can have on relationships. It's not always easy, but it's a crucial step in healing and moving forward.

In your situation, it seems like you're struggling with feelings of guilt, shame, and rejection. I want you to know that you're not alone, and that it's okay to acknowledge these emotions. However, it's also essential to remember that we can't stay stuck in these feelings forever. We must be willing to confront them, to seek help and guidance, and to work towards healing and restoration. As the Bible says, "We begin to pout, become irritated with God, and then say, Oh well, I cant help it. I prayed and things didnt turn out right anyway. So Im simply going to give up on everything." But I urge you, don't give up. Keep seeking, keep praying, and keep working towards healing and restoration.