Biblical Answer

What if I lose my sense of self?

Understanding the Paradox of Self-Loss

Losing one's sense of self is a paradoxical experience that can be both unsettling and liberating. On one hand, our sense of self is what defines us and gives us a sense of identity. It is the foundation upon which we build our relationships, our goals, and our values. On the other hand, when we lose ourselves in following Christ, we actually find ourselves. This is because our true identity is not in our accomplishments, our relationships, or our possessions, but in our relationship with God. When we surrender our sense of self to God, we are able to discover our true purpose and identity in Him.

The Dangers of Self-Awareness

Beware of allowing your self-awareness to become an idol. When we focus too much on ourselves, we become blinded to our own shortcomings and weaknesses. We become hyper-sensitive to the opinions and actions of others, and we become easily offended and angered. This is because self-centeredness makes us spiritually blind. When we focus on ourselves, we are not able to see God's perspective and His plans for our lives. Instead, we become trapped in our own desires and ambitions, and we lose sight of our true purpose.

Finding True Self in Christ

When we lose our sense of self, we are not losing our identity, but rather, we are finding our true identity in Christ. This is a process of surrendering our self-centeredness and our desire to control our lives. When we surrender to God, we are able to discover our true purpose and identity in Him. We are able to see ourselves as God sees us, and we are able to understand our place in the world. This is not a loss of self, but a gain of a deeper understanding of who we are and whose we are. It is a journey of self-discovery, but not in the classical sense. Rather, it is a journey of discovering our true identity in Christ, and living a life that reflects His character and values.