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Your Question:
What's the secret to a family's strength when love is tested?
Answer:
As a pastor and a husband, I've seen my fair share of challenges in family relationships. The secret to a family's strength when love is tested lies in prayer. Covering our family relationships in prayer, whether it's with children, parents, stepparents, or spouse, can prevent strained or severed relationships. I've experienced this firsthand with my own family. When my daughter Rebecca was born, her brother Joshua was four and a half years old, and I prayed from the beginning that they would have a loving and close relationship. Another crucial aspect is giving love to our spouse in a way that they feel loved and appreciated. This requires effort and intentionality. My wife Susan and I have learned to show love to each other in different ways, such as helping with chores and being involved in each other's lives. By doing so, we create a safe and loving environment where our family can thrive. It's essential to avoid comparisons and unrealistic expectations, which can lead to feelings of inferiority and undermine healthy self-confidence. Ultimately, the key to a strong family is modeling love and acceptance, not just to our spouse but also to our children. As we demonstrate love and acceptance, we help our family members grow in confidence and develop the capacity to easily communicate love to others. By doing so, we create a ripple effect of love that extends beyond our immediate family to our extended spiritual family in Christ.
Sources:
power of a praying parent
stormie omartian
meaning of marriage
timothy keller
addictions a banquet in the grave
edward t welch
the war on children
john macarthur
introduction biblical ethics
robertson mcquilkin
confronting christianity
rebecca mclaughlin
elemental theology
emery bancroft
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