Biblical Answer

The Fear of Loss of Control

When facing a terminal illness, it is natural to fear the loss of control over one's life. This fear can be overwhelming, especially if the person has always been in control and has never experienced a situation where they felt helpless. However, as we will discuss later, this fear can be a blessing in disguise. It can lead to a deeper dependence on God and a greater awareness of His sovereignty over our lives.

A Biblical Perspective on Suffering

From a biblical perspective, suffering is not something to be feared or avoided at all costs. In fact, the Bible teaches us that suffering can be a means of spiritual growth and maturity (Romans 5:3-5). When we go through difficult times, we are forced to rely on God and trust in His goodness and sovereignty. This trust can lead to a deeper sense of peace and contentment, even in the midst of suffering. As the apostle Paul wrote, "We also glory in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope" (Romans 5:3-4).

A Sense of Control in Suffering

While it may seem counterintuitive, having a terminal illness can actually give us a sense of control over our lives. When we are faced with the reality of our mortality, we are forced to re-evaluate our priorities and focus on what is truly important. We can choose to use our time and energy to serve God and others, rather than being consumed by our own desires and fears. This can lead to a greater sense of purpose and fulfillment, even in the midst of suffering. As the Bible says, "For to me, to live is Christ and to die is gain" (Philippians 1:21). In other words, when we are living for Christ, we can find joy and purpose even in the midst of suffering.