Biblical Answer

When we put others first when we're feeling stuck, we're taking a step towards healing and restoration. This is because putting others first is a reflection of the selflessness and humility that is at the heart of the Christian faith. As Andy Stanley says, "mutual submission is a race to the back of the line. Its a you first posture that fosters a climate of selflessness." This means that even when we're struggling with our own pain and emotions, we can choose to put others before ourselves and prioritize their needs and well-being. This can be a difficult and counterintuitive thing to do, but it's a crucial step towards breaking free from the cycle of hurt and anger that can hold us back.

When we put others first, we're also acknowledging that we're not alone in our struggles. We're recognizing that our pain and emotions are not the only things that matter, and that the people around us are also worthy of love, care, and attention. This can be a powerful way to break down the walls that we build around ourselves when we're feeling hurt or angry, and to start building relationships that are based on mutual support and care. As the Bible says, "Love your neighbor as yourself" (Mark 12:31), and putting others first is a key part of living out this command.

Putting others first when we're feeling stuck also requires us to confront and overcome our own selfishness and pride. This can be a difficult and painful process, but it's a crucial step towards healing and restoration. As the Bible says, "For where envy and self-seeking exist, confusion and every evil thing are there" (James 3:16), and when we're driven by a desire for our own comfort and happiness, we can become isolated and disconnected from others. By putting others first, we're taking a step towards humility and selflessness, and towards building relationships that are based on love, care, and mutual support.