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What's the best way to show love to those around us when we're feeling stuck?
Answer:
As I reflect on our 19 years of marriage, I've come to realize that when we're feeling stuck, it's easy to lose sight of how to show love to those around us. My wife Susan and I have had our share of ups and downs, but one thing that's helped us is to remember that love is not just about natural affection, but about making a conscious effort to show love even when it's hard. One way to do this is to plan situations that make focused attention easier, like going for walks, sitting by the fireplace, or having picnics. Even making an effort to arrange these things can be an important sign and expression of love. For me, it's about being intentional about creating opportunities to spend quality time with Susan and our kids, Joshua and Rebecca. Whether it's watching a Cubs game together or playing a game of chess, I want to make sure they feel seen and loved. As I've learned from my experiences as a pastor, love is not just about feelings, but about actions. When we're feeling stuck, it's easy to get caught up in our own struggles and forget to show love to those around us. But that's exactly when we need to make a conscious effort to love them, even when it's hard. As the Bible says, "Love should be expressed verbally, not by simply saying, 'I love you.'" It's about being willing to serve, to listen, to touch, and to pray for one another, even when it's difficult. That's what it means to truly love someone.
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depression
edward welch
meaning of marriage
timothy keller
addictions a banquet in the grave
edward t welch
biblical critical theory
christopher watkin
true sexual morality
daniel heimbach
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