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How do I explain this to my kids when I have no answers?
Answer:
As a father of two teenagers, I understand the challenge of navigating difficult conversations with them, especially when I don't have the answers. When my children, Joshua and Rebecca, come to me with questions or concerns, I try to create a safe and non-judgmental space for them to express themselves. I get down to their level, look them in the eye, and ask open-ended questions like, "You seem sad; what happened?" or "What's going on that's making you feel this way?" This helps me understand the root of their emotions and concerns. It's not always easy, and there are times when they continue to be obstinate. In those situations, I reassure them that I'm still here to listen and that I love them no matter what. I tell them that I'll be happy to talk with them when they're ready, and that I'm not going to force them to talk if they're not ready. I also try to ask heart-probing questions that encourage them to think critically and reflect on their own thoughts and feelings. By doing so, I'm helping them develop the skills they need to navigate life's challenges on their own. As a parent, it's essential to remember that I don't have all the answers, and it's okay to say, "I don't know." In fact, saying "I don't know" can be a powerful way to show my children that I'm willing to learn and grow alongside them. By being honest, patient, and loving, I'm helping my children develop the skills they need to become independent thinkers and problem-solvers. And when they do make poor choices, I try not to berate myself or them, but instead, I seek God's wisdom and guidance to help us navigate the situation together.
Sources:
raising kids to follow christ
lee ann mancini
raising passionate jesus followers
phil diane comer
power of a praying parent
stormie omartian
the war on children
john macarthur
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