Biblical Answer

The Power of a PRAYING PARENT

Destroying an Inheritance of Family Bondage

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enjoying a good life because of it. I wish I could forgive my mother, but I dont think I can. Why cant I get beyond this? The Bible teaches that we should forgive others as we have been forgiven by God (Ephesians 4:32). When we choose not to forgive, it can bring death into our life in one form or another (Matthew 6:14-15). The best way to become forgiving is to pray for the person you need to forgive. Even though it may seem hard at first, once you get into the habit of praying for them, you will find it easier to forgive. Forgiveness is trusting that God is the God of justice He says He is and saying, Father, I forgive this person because You have forgiven me (Matthew 6:14-15). Forgiveness is not about saying what the other person did is okay, but about trusting that God will take care of the situation and bring justice. When we choose not to forgive, we are actually living as if God is not the God of justice, and that can bring death into our life.

The Bible teaches that forgiveness is not just about forgiving others, but also about forgiving ourselves. When we choose not to forgive ourselves, it can be a major obstacle to forgiveness. This is because unforgiveness can create a cycle of guilt and shame that can be difficult to break. The Bible teaches that God's forgiveness covers both guilt and shame (1 John 1:9). When we choose to forgive ourselves, we are actually choosing to receive God's forgiveness and mercy. This can be a difficult process, but it is an important step in learning to forgive others. As the Bible says, "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness" (1 John 1:9).

So, can you ever forgive yourself for not being able to take care of your parent? The answer is yes. Forgiveness is a process, and it may take time and effort to work through your feelings and come to a place of forgiveness. But it is possible. The Bible teaches that forgiveness is a choice, and it is a choice that we must make in order to break free from the cycle of guilt and shame. When we choose to forgive ourselves, we are actually choosing to receive God's forgiveness and mercy, and that can bring healing and restoration to our lives. It's not about saying what we did is okay, but about trusting that God will take care of the situation and bring justice. So, take the first step today and choose to forgive yourself. Pray for God's forgiveness and mercy, and trust that He will guide you through the process of forgiveness.