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Your Question:
Can I really trust anyone after what my family member did to me?
Answer:
I can relate to your struggle with trust after what your family member did to you. As a pastor, I've seen many families go through similar situations, and it's not uncommon for trust to be broken. However, I've also learned that trust is not something that's entitled, but rather it's something that's earned over time. When my own children were teenagers, I had to navigate a similar situation. They would ask me if I trusted them, and I had to explain that trust is not about giving them complete autonomy, but about working together and building a relationship based on mutual respect and understanding. I would tell them, "I trust you, but I'm hesitant to trust your judgment in certain situations. Let's work together on that." This approach helped us build a stronger relationship and taught them the value of earning trust. In your case, it may be helpful to take a step back and reflect on the pattern of behavior in your family. Have you seen this trait manifest in other family members as well? Recognizing that you're not alone in this struggle can be a powerful step towards healing and rebuilding trust. As you work through this process, remember that trust is a two-way street. It requires effort and commitment from both parties to rebuild and maintain.
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