Biblical Answer

Can I really not pay for my kids' education?

The Sovereignty of God and the Purpose of Parenting

As Christians, we believe in the sovereignty of God over all creation, including the lives of our children. This means that we trust God to work out His purposes in their lives, even when we don't fully understand what that means. As parents, our role is not to guarantee our children's success or happiness, but to teach them to trust in God and to live according to His principles. This includes being responsible with finances and making wise decisions about how to use our resources.

The Value of Hard Work and Responsibility

Rather than relying on us to pay for their education, we can teach our children the value of hard work and responsibility by giving them opportunities to earn their own money. This can be done by giving them age-appropriate chores and encouraging them to save and budget their earnings. By doing so, we can help them develop a sense of ownership and responsibility for their financial decisions. This approach may not guarantee that they will have the resources they need to pursue their educational goals, but it will help them develop the skills and character they need to succeed in life.

Trusting in God's Provision

Ultimately, we must trust in God's provision for our children's education and well-being. We cannot guarantee their success or happiness, but we can trust that God is working out His purposes in their lives. By teaching our children to trust in God and to live according to His principles, we can help them develop a sense of hope and security that goes beyond their financial situation. This is not to say that we should not plan or prepare for our children's future, but rather that we should do so with a sense of trust and dependence on God, rather than relying solely on our own resources or abilities.