Biblical Answer

The Reality of Anger Toward God

When we are in pain, it is natural to feel a range of emotions, including anger. In fact, anger is a common response to suffering, and it can manifest in various ways, such as feeling frustrated, resentful, or even bitter. The Bible acknowledges the legitimacy of anger, even toward God. For instance, the book of Jonah tells the story of a prophet who is angry with God for not saving the city of Nineveh, despite his efforts to warn them of impending destruction. Similarly, the Psalms express a range of emotions, including anger, in prayer to God.

However, it's essential to examine our motives for feeling angry toward God. Are we distressed over a sin that offends God and harms people, or are we angry over the way we are affected? If our anger is rooted in a sense of personal hurt or injustice, it may be a sign that we need to re-examine our relationship with God. The Bible teaches that God's anger is an expression of his love, and if we don't get angry, we don't love. On the other hand, if we witness injustice and are unmoved, we don't love the victim. Therefore, it's crucial to pray and reflect on our emotions, allowing God to search our hearts and test our motives.

In prayer, we can express our honest emotions, including anger, to God. The Psalms model this kind of prayer, helping us articulate our emotions and seek God's guidance. When we are deeply harmed and our anger boils, we should not try to suppress it or pretend it's not there. Instead, we should pray, "Lord, search me, and know my heart. See if there be any wicked way in me, and lead me in the way everlasting" (Psalm 139:23-24). By praying and seeking God's guidance, we can work through our anger and come to a deeper understanding of God's sovereignty and love. Ultimately, our goal should be to align our emotions with God's character and will, rather than allowing anger to consume us.