Biblical Answer

The Dilemma of Choosing Between Business and Relationship

When faced with the decision of saving one's business or relationship, it's essential to consider the underlying values and priorities that guide your choices. As a Christian, I believe that relationships, including marriages and business partnerships, are built on the principles of love, respect, and sacrifice. When both partners prioritize the welfare of the other, even at personal sacrifice, the majority of marital problems can be resolved. Conversely, when one partner seeks to control or dominate the other, the relationship can become toxic and unsustainable.

Evaluating Your Priorities

To make a decision between saving your business and saving your relationship, it's crucial to evaluate your priorities and values. Ask yourself if you're willing to work on your selfishness and minister to your partner, or if you're more concerned with your own needs and desires. If you find yourself desiring to work on your relationship and grow together, that's a positive sign. However, if you're more focused on your business and see your relationship as secondary, it may be a sign of an unhealthy imbalance.

Seeking God's Guidance

Ultimately, when faced with difficult decisions, I encourage you to seek God's guidance and wisdom. As a Christian, I believe that God is sovereign over all aspects of our lives, including our relationships and businesses. By seeking His guidance and prioritizing His values of love, respect, and sacrifice, we can make decisions that honor Him and bring us closer to Him. In the words of 1 Corinthians 13:4-7, "Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres." By seeking to love and prioritize our relationships, we can make decisions that bring us closer to God and build stronger, more sustainable relationships.