Biblical Answer

When we're not in control, we must recognize that God is sovereign over all creation, including our lives. This means that He has the authority to guide and direct us, even when we're not aware of it. As the Bible says, "For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways, declares the Lord. For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways and my thoughts than your thoughts" (Isaiah 55:8-9). In this sense, we can trust that God is working in our lives, even when we're not in control.

The concept of self-control is closely tied to this idea of God's sovereignty. When we're not in control, we must learn to rely on God's power to guide us and give us the strength we need to make wise choices. This is what the Bible means by "casting our cares upon Him, because He cares for us" (1 Peter 5:7). By surrendering our lives to God, we can experience the freedom and joy that comes from living a life that is surrendered to Him. As the apostle Paul wrote, "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me" (Philippians 4:13).

In the context of addiction, the question of whether we're in control or not is a critical one. If we view addiction as a sickness or a disease, we may try to control it through our own efforts, but this can lead to feelings of guilt and shame when we fail. However, if we view addiction as a sin, we can recognize that our lack of control is a symptom of a deeper issue, and that God is the only one who can truly set us free. As the Bible says, "For God did not give us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of self-discipline" (2 Timothy 1:7). By acknowledging our lack of control and surrendering our lives to God, we can experience the freedom and healing that comes from living a life that is surrendered to Him.