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Your Question:
How do I tell my kids that I'm dying?
Answer:
My dear friend, I can sense the weight of your question. Telling your kids that you're dying can be one of the most difficult conversations you'll ever have. As a pastor, I've had to have this conversation with some of my congregants, and I can tell you that it's not something you can prepare for in advance. However, I do think it's essential to be honest with your children, to explain the situation in a way that's easy for them to understand. When speaking with your kids, try to be gentle and empathetic. Ask them to explain why they're asking, and see if there's another question or concern behind their inquiry. Be honest and open, but also be mindful of their age and maturity level. You might say something like, "You know how sometimes we talk about heaven and what happens when we die? Well, I have some news to share with you that's hard for me to say, but I want you to know that I love you very much, and I'm proud of the people you're becoming." Remember to be patient and available to answer their questions and concerns. It's okay if they don't understand everything right away. As a parent, you're not just their authority figure, but also their guide and support system. Trust that God will be with you both during this difficult time, and that He will give you the words and wisdom you need to navigate this conversation. As I always say, "My child, you know that I love you and want only the best for you. I know that what I am doing is not easy, but I want to be honest with you, and I want to be there for you, no matter what."
Sources:
raising kids to follow christ
lee ann mancini
raising passionate jesus followers
phil diane comer
power of a praying parent
stormie omartian
depression
edward welch
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