Biblical Answer

Why did my own child betray me?

It can be a devastating experience to have a child betray us. However, we must not jump to conclusions or blame ourselves for the betrayal. Often, our children's behavior is a result of their own struggles and weaknesses, rather than a reflection of our parenting. For example, the Bible tells us that our children are born with a sinful nature (Psalm 51:5), and that we are all prone to making mistakes and poor choices (Romans 3:23). Rather than beating ourselves up over our child's betrayal, we should seek to understand the underlying reasons for their behavior and seek God's guidance and wisdom on how to respond.

When our children struggle with sin and make poor choices, it is often because they are trying to fill a void or meet a deep emotional need. As a parent, it is our responsibility to model and teach our children what it means to live a life of faith and obedience to God. However, even with the best intentions and parenting, our children may still struggle with sin and make mistakes. In these situations, it is essential to seek forgiveness and restoration with our child, rather than becoming defensive or angry. By doing so, we demonstrate to our child that we live under God's authority and that we are willing to confess and repent when we are wrong.

Ultimately, the reasons for our child's betrayal are complex and multifaceted. Rather than trying to figure out who is to blame, we should focus on seeking God's wisdom and guidance on how to respond. By doing so, we can model for our child what it means to live a life of faith, obedience, and forgiveness. We can also create an environment where our child feels safe to confess and repent, and where they can experience the healing and restoration that comes from God's forgiveness and love. As the Bible says, "He who trusts in his own heart is a fool, but he who walks in wisdom will be delivered" (Proverbs 28:26). By seeking wisdom and guidance from God, we can navigate even the most challenging situations with our child and help them grow in their faith and relationship with God.