Biblical Answer

The greatest love we can show to others when life gets busy is not just a romantic relationship or a marriage, but a personal relationship with God through Jesus Christ. As the Bible says, "My command is this: Love each other" (John 15:12). This love is not just a feeling, but a choice we make every day to put the needs of others before our own. When we prioritize our relationship with God, we are able to love others more deeply and selflessly.

In a world where relationships can be fleeting and superficial, it's easy to get caught up in the idea that love is just about finding the right person or experiencing the thrill of new feelings. But true love is not just about romance or excitement, but about commitment, sacrifice, and putting the needs of others before our own. As Frank Sheed said, "Love is the willingness to surrender that which has value to us for the sake of the one we love" (Sheed, 2019). This kind of love requires effort, patience, and selflessness, but it is the kind of love that truly lasts.

So, what does this look like in our daily lives? It means being intentional about showing love to those around us, whether it's our family, friends, or neighbors. It means being willing to serve and sacrifice for others, even when it's difficult or inconvenient. And it means being open to receiving love and care from others, even if it's not always easy or comfortable. As the Bible says, "Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud" (1 Corinthians 13:4). When we prioritize our relationship with God and love others with this kind of love, we will experience a love that truly lasts and brings glory to Christ.