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Your Question:
How do I explain this to my spouse when they ask what we're going to do?
Answer:
When your spouse asks what we're going to do, I think it's essential to approach the conversation with empathy and understanding. As a pastor, I've seen many couples struggle with communication and emotional distance. It's not uncommon for couples to develop an unspoken agreement not to discuss certain topics, leading to a kind of detente or ceasefire. However, this can be a temporary solution at best, and it's crucial to address the underlying issues that are causing the emotional distance. In our marriage, Susan and I have learned to prioritize communication and understanding. We make a conscious effort to put ourselves in each other's shoes and try to see things from each other's perspective. This has helped us to develop a stronger empathy for each other's weaknesses and peculiarities. When we're faced with challenges, we try to approach them together, rather than resorting to resentment or blame. When discussing what we're going to do, I think it's essential to focus on finding solutions together, rather than placing blame or making demands. We should strive to understand each other's needs and limitations, and work together to find a mutually beneficial solution. This requires a commitment to surrender our own demands and expectations, and to prioritize our relationship above our individual needs. By doing so, we can create a stronger, more loving, and more resilient marriage.
Sources:
meaning of marriage
timothy keller
addictions a banquet in the grave
edward t welch
power of a praying wife
stormie omartian
sacred marriage
gary thomas
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