Biblical Answer

Here's how you can explain this to your spouse when they ask what we're going to do:

Understanding Your Spouse's Perspective

When your spouse asks what you're going to do, take a moment to reflect on their perspective. Ask yourself, "How does my spouse typically respond to situations and challenges?" Try to see things from their point of view and understand their thought process. This can help you anticipate their reactions and respond in a way that takes their needs and feelings into account.

Communicating Your Own Needs and Feelings

When responding to your spouse's question, be honest and open about your own needs and feelings. Explain how you're feeling and what you're thinking, without placing blame or becoming defensive. Use "I" statements instead of "you" statements, which can come across as accusatory. For example, you might say, "I'm feeling overwhelmed and exhausted, and I need some time to rest and recharge. Can we discuss this further when I'm feeling more energized?"

Seeking God's Guidance

Ultimately, as Christians, we should seek God's guidance and wisdom in navigating our relationships and decisions. When faced with uncertainty or conflict, ask God to reveal His will and lead you both towards a path of love, understanding, and mutual respect. Remember, God's ways are higher than our ways, and His plans are better than ours (Isaiah 55:8-9). By seeking His guidance and wisdom, you can find a way forward that honors Him and brings blessing to your marriage. Ask God to help you both to put Him first in your relationship, and to make Him your first consideration in all decisions and interactions. As you do this, you'll find that your relationship will become more harmonious and loving, and that you'll be better equipped to navigate life's challenges together.