Biblical Answer

When we choose between love and anger in our daily routines, we must first understand that anger reveals more about our own heart than it does about the other person. This is because anger is between us and God. It is a reflection of our trust in Him and our ability to forgive others. When we choose to respond with anger, we are essentially saying that we do not trust God to handle the situation. This is why it is essential to examine our own heart and understand why we are angry. We cannot simply try to stop being angry, as this approach is doomed to fail. Instead, we must confront the root of our anger and learn to trust God.

As we learn to trust God, we will begin to see the importance of choosing love over anger in our daily routines. This is because love is the action that we can control, whereas anger is an emotion that often gets the best of us. When we choose to respond with love, we are showing that we trust God to handle the situation and that we are willing to forgive others. This is particularly important in marriage, where we have the opportunity to train our children to choose love over anger. By doing so, we can create a safe and loving environment where our children can grow and develop.

In choosing between love and anger, we must also remember that venting our anger is not the solution. Suppressing our anger is also not the answer, as this can lead to further damage and resentment. Instead, we must learn to respond with love, even when faced with difficult situations. This is a choice that we can make every day, and it is one that requires effort and discipline. However, it is a choice that is worth making, as it allows us to trust God and to show love to others. By choosing love over anger, we can create a more loving and peaceful environment, not just for ourselves, but for those around us.