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How do I forgive my child?

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Forgiving my child is a crucial part of being a father, and I've learned that it's essential to ask for their forgiveness when I've blown it. This means taking responsibility for my actions, identifying what I did wrong, and explaining how my words or actions hurt them. For instance, if I've been harsh in my tone when I was angry, I need to tell my child that I was wrong and that I'm asking for their forgiveness.

It's also essential to replace the negative memory with a positive one by using words that edify my child. I want my children, Joshua and Rebecca, to know that they are loved and valued, regardless of their mistakes. When I apologize, I need to be specific about what I did wrong and take responsibility for my actions. For example, I might say, "I'm sorry for calling you stupid" instead of just saying, "I'm sorry if I hurt you." This helps my children understand that I'm truly sorry and committed to doing better in the future.

As a father, I want my children to see forgiveness modeled in our home. I want them to see that forgiveness is not just about letting go of the hurt, but also about being merciful and extending grace to others. I pray that my children will learn to forgive others and themselves, and that they will see the power of forgiveness in our relationship with God. By modeling forgiveness and teaching my children the proper way to apologize, I hope to raise kids who will grow up to be merciful and forgiving, just like Jesus.

Sources:

raising passionate jesus followers
phil diane comer
raising kids to follow christ
lee ann mancini
power of a praying parent
stormie omartian

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