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New Life in Relationships: Can Our Daily Choices Bring It?

Understanding the Challenges of Marriage

Marriage can be a beautiful and fulfilling relationship, but it can also be challenging and demanding. When two independent individuals come together, they bring their own desires, expectations, and habits into the relationship. As time passes, the initial euphoria of the newlywed may give way to the harsh realities of life, and the relationship may become strained. However, it is during these difficult times that couples can choose to bring new life to their relationship through their daily choices.

Choosing to Bring New Life

When we feel tired and discouraged, it can be tempting to give up on our relationship. But instead of throwing in the towel, we can choose to focus on the positive aspects of our relationship and make a conscious effort to bring new life to it. This can involve setting aside time for regular date nights, engaging in activities that bring us joy and laughter, and making an effort to understand and appreciate each other's needs and desires. By choosing to prioritize our relationship and make intentional decisions, we can create a more fulfilling and loving environment for ourselves and our partner.

Finding Motivation in Serving Each Other

One key to bringing new life to our relationship is to find motivation in serving each other, rather than just focusing on our own desires. When we view our relationship as an opportunity to serve and bless each other, we can find new energy and enthusiasm for the relationship. This can involve taking an inventory of our partner's difficulties and challenges, rather than just focusing on their shortcomings. By doing so, we can gain a deeper understanding and appreciation for each other, and our relationship can become more fulfilling and loving. By choosing to make intentional decisions and find motivation in serving each other, we can bring new life to our relationship and create a more loving and fulfilling environment for ourselves and our partner. The Bible teaches us to "bear one another's burdens" (Galatians 6:2) and to "love one another as I have loved you" (John 15:12). By following these principles, we can create a more loving and supportive relationship that brings joy and fulfillment to both partners. Ultimately, our daily choices have the power to either bring new life to our relationships or to allow them to wither and die. By choosing to prioritize our relationship and make intentional decisions, we can create a more loving and fulfilling environment for ourselves and our partner. As the Bible says, "Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres" (1 Corinthians 13:4-7). By choosing to love and serve each other in this way, we can bring new life to our relationship and create a more loving and fulfilling environment for ourselves and our partner.