Biblical Answer

Showing kindness to others without expecting anything in return can be a challenging task, especially when we're feeling isolated. However, as Christians, we are called to love our neighbors as ourselves (Mark 12:31) and to be kind to one another, even when it's difficult (Ephesians 4:32). One way to approach this is to put on a friendly manner, even when we don't feel like it (Proverbs 14:31). By behaving in a kind and compassionate way, we can often find that our feelings begin to change, and we genuinely start to feel more friendly towards others.

Another way to cultivate kindness without expecting anything in return is to focus on serving others. When we serve, we are not motivated by a desire to receive something in return, but rather by a desire to show God's love and care for others (Galatians 5:13). This can be as simple as offering a listening ear, doing a small act of kindness, or going out of our way to help someone in need. By focusing on serving others, we can find joy and fulfillment in our relationships, even when it's difficult to connect with others.

Ultimately, showing kindness to others without expecting anything in return requires a willingness to humble ourselves and accept our purpose in life (1 Corinthians 12:12-31). As Christians, we are called to be the body of Christ, and our relationships with others are an important part of that. By choosing to serve others and show kindness, even when it's difficult, we can find true happiness and fulfillment in our relationships, and we can be a source of joy and light to those around us. As Jesus said, "It is more blessed to give than to receive" (Acts 20:35). By choosing to give and serve others, we can experience the joy and blessing that comes from living a life of kindness and compassion.