Biblical Answer

When everything feels like it's falling apart, it can be overwhelming and debilitating. However, as Christians, we have access to a powerful source of strength that can help us stand firm in the midst of chaos. This strength is not just about emotional resilience, but about spiritual resilience. It's about putting on the whole armor of God, as Paul instructs us in Ephesians 6:10-18. This armor includes the belt of truth, the breastplate of righteousness, the shoes of the gospel of peace, the shield of faith, the helmet of salvation, and the sword of the Spirit. By putting on this armor, we are able to stand strong against the spiritual forces of darkness that seek to destroy us.

But how do we put on this armor? It starts with a willingness to face the strain of our circumstances. As the saying goes, "no strain, no strength." We must be willing to face the challenges head-on, rather than trying to avoid or deny them. This requires a deep trust in God's sovereignty and a recognition that He is working everything out for our good, even when we can't see it. It also requires a willingness to be weak, to be vulnerable, and to rely on God's strength rather than our own. As the apostle Paul wrote, "When I am weak, then I am strong" (2 Corinthians 12:10). By acknowledging our weakness and surrendering to God's strength, we can find the resilience we need to stand strong in the midst of chaos.

In addition to putting on the armor of God, we must also be willing to face the emotional and spiritual pain that can come with feeling like everything is falling apart. This may involve seeking help from a trusted friend or counselor, or even attending a support group like Al-Anon. It's also important to remember that our feelings of guilt, shame, and inadequacy are not necessarily a reflection of our worth as children of God. Rather, they are often a result of our fallen human nature and our tendency to compare ourselves to others. By acknowledging these feelings and seeking to understand their root causes, we can begin to find healing and restoration. As the psalmist wrote, "The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves the crushed in spirit" (Psalm 34:18). By turning to God in our brokenness, we can find the strength and comfort we need to face whatever challenges come our way.