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Your Question:
How do I make sure my kids are okay?
Answer:
As a father of two wonderful kids, Joshua and Rebecca, I can attest that making sure they're okay is a top priority for me and my wife, Susan. One way we show them love and care is by being present and attentive. We take the time to listen to their day at school, ask open-ended questions, and remain at eye level to ensure they feel heard and understood. This helps build trust and strong relationships. It's also essential to model how to disagree without being disagreeable and to give our children more yeses and less nos. We want them to feel loved and supported, even when we have to say no. I recall when Joshua was younger, he would get frustrated when we wouldn't let him do something. Instead of saying, "I told you so," we'd say, "We made a bunch of dumb decisions too, but God was with us, and He saw us through." This helps them learn from their mistakes and develop a sense of resilience. As a parent, it's also crucial to be aware of our own emotionally unhealthy tendencies, lest we burden our kids with our own unresolved issues. We want to be wise and discerning, knowing our children and guarding their hearts as we help them know themselves. By doing so, we can create a safe and loving environment where they feel comfortable sharing their thoughts and feelings with us. And, of course, we always make sure to tell them often how much we love them and are grateful to be their parents.
Sources:
raising kids to follow christ
lee ann mancini
raising passionate jesus followers
phil diane comer
the war on children
john macarthur
depression
edward welch
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