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Your Question:
What happens when love becomes a choice?
Answer:
As I reflect on the concept of love becoming a choice, I'm reminded of the importance of commitment and responsibility in marriage. When I first fell in love with my wife Susan, I thought I loved her for who she was, but as time passed, I realized that love is a choice that I make every day. It's a choice to put her needs before mine, to support her, and to be her partner in every sense of the word. The Bible teaches us that love is a responsibility, not just a feeling. It's a choice to act lovingly, even when it's difficult or painful. As a pastor, I've seen many couples struggle with this concept, especially when they're faced with challenges in their marriage. But when we choose to love, even when we don't feel like it, it can lead to a deeper and more joyful affection. It's not just about following our emotions, but about making a conscious decision to love and serve our partner. In our marriage, Susan and I have learned to choose love over feelings. We've had our ups and downs, but we've always tried to put each other first. And as a result, our love has grown and deepened over time. It's not just about romantic passion, but about a commitment to each other that goes beyond feelings. As the Bible says, "Love is a choice that we make every day, not just a feeling that we experience." When we choose to love, we can experience a deeper and more meaningful connection with our partner.
Sources:
meaning of marriage
timothy keller
right thinking in age of chaos
john macarthur
introduction biblical ethics
robertson mcquilkin
true sexual morality
daniel heimbach
confronting christianity
rebecca mclaughlin
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