Biblical Answer

When love is tested, what does it reveals about our true nature?

When love is tested, it reveals our true nature in two main ways: by what we are willing to sacrifice for others and by the quality of our relationships with those closest to us. As 1 John 3:16-18 explains, love is not just a feeling or a sentiment, but a decision to act in the best interest of another person, even if it means sacrificing our own desires or comfort. When we are faced with difficult choices or situations that require us to put others before ourselves, our true nature is revealed. Do we choose to love and sacrifice for the benefit of others, or do we prioritize our own needs and desires?

Furthermore, the quality of our relationships with those closest to us also reveals our true nature. As 1 John 3:11-18 emphasizes, love is demonstrated through our actions and behavior towards others. When we love others, we become more patient, kind, and gentle. We become more forgiving and understanding. We become more willing to listen and serve others. On the other hand, when we fail to love others, we become more frustrated, impatient, and angry. We become more self-centered and less concerned with the needs and feelings of others. Therefore, when love is tested, it reveals whether we are becoming more loving, joyful, and at peace, or whether we are becoming more selfish, frustrated, and angry.

In conclusion, when love is tested, it reveals our true nature in two main ways: by what we are willing to sacrifice for others and by the quality of our relationships with those closest to us. If we choose to love and sacrifice for others, and if we demonstrate love through our actions and behavior towards others, then it reveals that we are becoming more like Christ and more like the kind of people God desires us to be. On the other hand, if we prioritize our own needs and desires, and if we fail to demonstrate love towards others, then it reveals that we are still struggling with our own selfish desires and that we need to grow in our love for God and others. Ultimately, the test of love is a reflection of our true nature, and it is a reminder that we are called to love God and others with all our heart, soul, mind, and strength.