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Your Question:
how do i forgive someone who hurt me so deeply?
Answer:
Forgiveness is a process that requires humility and a willingness to let go of resentment and bitterness. As I reflect on my own experiences, I realize that forgiveness doesn't mean forgetting what happened, but rather not holding the person's sin against them. When someone hurts us deeply, it's natural to feel angry and want to hold onto that hurt. However, unless we let go of our hatred and forgive, we risk becoming imprisoned by our own anger. It's also essential to understand that forgiveness doesn't mean reconciliation is always possible. In some cases, the person who hurt us may not apologize or make amends. But that doesn't mean we can't forgive them. Forgiveness is not about the other person; it's about our own hearts and our relationship with God. When we forgive, we're not condoning the person's behavior, but rather choosing to release the negative emotions associated with the hurt. As a pastor, I've seen many people struggle with forgiveness, often because they feel superior to the person who hurt them. But true forgiveness requires humility and a willingness to acknowledge our own flaws and weaknesses. When we ask for forgiveness, it's not just about the other person; it's about our own character and our desire to live in accordance with God's commands. As I've learned through my own experiences and studies, forgiveness is a powerful act that can bring healing and restoration to our lives and relationships.
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