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Your Question:
Can I ever forgive myself for not being able to save my marriage?
Answer:
Forgiveness is a crucial aspect of any relationship, especially marriage. As a pastor and a husband, I can attest to the fact that forgiveness is not always easy, but it's necessary for a healthy and thriving marriage. When we hold onto resentment and bitterness, it can create a barrier that separates us from our loved ones and from God. In my experience, forgiveness is an act of self-defense, a way to stop the fatal bleeding of resentment. It's not about excusing or justifying the hurtful behavior, but about choosing to let go of the pain and anger. My wife, Susan, and I have been married for 19 years, and we've had our share of struggles. But through the power of forgiveness, we've been able to work through our issues and come out stronger on the other side. As I've learned to forgive and extend grace to Susan, I've also come to realize that forgiveness is not just about my relationship with her, but also about my relationship with God. When we forgive, we're not just releasing the other person from their debt, we're also releasing ourselves from the burden of resentment and bitterness. It's a fresh start, a new beginning, and a chance to live a new meaningful life in service to God and to each other.
Sources:
sacred marriage
gary thomas
power of a praying wife
stormie omartian
power of a praying parent
stormie omartian
meaning of marriage
timothy keller
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