Biblical Answer

The Pain of Numbness

It is okay to feel numb after a diagnosis of cancer. The emotional pain that comes with the diagnosis of a life-threatening illness can be overwhelming, and it is common for people to feel numb or disconnected from their emotions. This numbness can be a coping mechanism, helping individuals to avoid the full weight of their emotions and the reality of their situation. As the author notes, "if one of your children died, you still wouldn't feel anything. Yet pain does break through in this more lifeless, numb state." This numbness can be a sign that the individual is struggling to process their emotions and come to terms with their diagnosis.

The Nature of Numbness

Numbness is not the same as a lack of pain. While it may feel like there is no pain, research suggests that pain can still be present, even if it is not being felt. The author notes that "the pain from surgery will seem less severe to the sufferer than the pain of cancer." This is because the body is wired to respond to pain in different ways, and the emotional pain of a cancer diagnosis can be more overwhelming than the physical pain of surgery. Additionally, numbness can be a sign that the individual is in a state of denial or avoidance, trying to cope with the reality of their situation by disconnecting from their emotions.

Finding Hope in the Midst of Numbness

While numbness can be a challenging and painful experience, it is not a sign of weakness or a lack of faith. In fact, it can be a sign that the individual is struggling to come to terms with their situation and find hope in the midst of their pain. As the author notes, "your pain won't have the same devastating power" when you have a personal relationship with Jesus Christ. This is because Jesus is present with us in our pain, and He can bring us comfort and peace in the midst of our struggles. By seeking comfort and guidance from Scripture and wise people, individuals can find hope and healing in the midst of their numbness. Ultimately, it is okay to feel numb after a diagnosis of cancer, but it is also important to seek out help and support to find hope and healing in the midst of our pain.