Biblical Answer

The question "Why did God let me get into a relationship with a bad person?" is a common one that many people ask. From an evangelical Christian perspective, we believe that God is sovereign over all creation, and He is all-powerful, all-knowing, and all-loving. However, this does not mean that God causes bad things to happen or that He is responsible for the evil in the world. Instead, we believe that God allows evil to exist in order to bring about good. In this case, the relationship with the bad person may have been a test of faith, a chance for personal growth, or an opportunity to show God's love and forgiveness.

It's also possible that God allowed the relationship to happen because He wanted to convict the other person of their sin and bring them to repentance. This is what happened in the story you shared, where you prayed for God to convict your friend of their sin and turn their heart towards God. God did a much better job than you ever could have, and your friend's heart was changed. This shows that God is a God of love and forgiveness, and that He is always working to bring people to Himself. It's not that God was angry with you or that He wanted to punish you, but rather that He wanted to use the situation to bring about good.

Ultimately, the reason why God allows bad things to happen is because He is a God of love and sovereignty, and He is working all things together for our good (Romans 8:28). This means that even in difficult situations, God is always working to bring about His good plan and to bring people to Himself. As the Bible says, "And we know that for those who love God all things work together for good, for those who are called according to his purpose" (Romans 8:28). So, even if God allowed you to get into a relationship with a bad person, it's not because He was angry with you or because He wanted to punish you, but rather because He wanted to bring about good and to bring people to Himself.