Biblical Answer

Understanding the Commandment to Love Your Neighbor as Yourself

The commandment to love your neighbor as yourself is a fundamental principle in the Christian faith, rooted in the teachings of Jesus Christ. In the biblical account, Jesus is asked by a lawyer, "Who is my neighbor?" in response to the question of how to fulfill the commandment to love your neighbor as yourself (Luke 10:25-37). Jesus' response is the parable of the Good Samaritan, which illustrates the meaning of loving one's neighbor as oneself.

In this parable, the Good Samaritan shows kindness and compassion to a stranger who has been beaten and left by the side of the road. The Samaritan's actions demonstrate the practical application of loving one's neighbor as oneself, which involves treating others with love, kindness, and compassion. This is not simply a feeling of affection or fondness, but rather a deliberate choice to act with love and care towards others. As C.S. Lewis notes, "The rule for all of us is perfectly simple. Do not waste time bothering whether you love your neighbor; act as if you did" (Mere Christianity, p. 102).

Applying the Commandment to Modern Parenting

In modern parenting, loving one's neighbor as oneself means treating others with kindness, compassion, and respect. This involves being mindful of the needs of those around us, including our children, family members, and community. As parents, we can demonstrate this love by being present and engaged with our children, listening to their needs and concerns, and showing them kindness and compassion. We can also model this love by being kind and respectful to others, including our neighbors, teachers, and community leaders. By doing so, we can teach our children the value of loving others as themselves, and help them develop a sense of empathy and compassion for those around them. Ultimately, loving one's neighbor as oneself is not just a moral principle, but a way of life that reflects the character of God and brings joy and fulfillment to those who practice it.