Biblical Answer

Showing Kindness Without Expecting a Return

The Bible encourages us to show kindness to those around us, even when it's not easy. In fact, Jesus teaches us to love our enemies and do good to those who hate us (Matthew 5:44). This is not just a feeling, but a choice we make to obey God's command to be kind and compassionate. When we show kindness without expecting a return, we are not only obeying God, but we are also demonstrating the character of Christ.

One way to show kindness without expecting a return is to put on a friendly manner, even when we don't feel like it. As Proverbs 4:23 says, "Watch over your heart with all diligence, for from it flow the springs of life." This means being mindful of our thoughts, words, and actions, and making a conscious effort to be kind and compassionate towards others. When we do this, we are not only showing kindness to others, but we are also cultivating a more humble and gentle heart.

The Bible also teaches us that kindness should be shown to all people, regardless of their behavior towards us. In Matthew 5:44, Jesus says, "Love your enemies and do good to those who hate you." This is not just a suggestion, but a command from God. When we show kindness to those who are unkind towards us, we are not only obeying God, but we are also demonstrating the character of Christ. As we do this, we will find that our hearts are transformed and we become more like Jesus. So, let us strive to show kindness to all people, without expecting a return, and may our hearts be filled with the love and compassion of Christ.