Biblical Answer

Can I still be a good parent if I'm too sick to play with my kids?

Yes, you can still be a good parent even if you're too sick to play with your kids. In fact, it's okay to say no and prioritize your own needs. As the author notes, "saying no was, in fact, an option." This means that you don't have to be a perfect parent and play with your kids all the time. Your presence in their lives, even if it's just sitting with them or being available to talk, is what matters most.

It's also important to remember that your kids will grow up and leave your home one day. They will make their own friends and form their own relationships, and your relationship with them will change. As the author says, "your relationship with your child is in jeopardy. You've become an adversary." This means that it's okay to set boundaries and prioritize your own needs, even if it means not playing with your kids all the time.

In fact, being a good parent is not just about playing with your kids, but about teaching them values and skills that will help them succeed in life. As the author notes, "train toward it. Refrain from being your child's friend." This means that you should be focused on teaching your kids important values and skills, rather than just trying to be their friend. By doing so, you can be a good parent even if you're too sick to play with your kids.