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Your Question:
how do i forgive those who hurt me?
Answer:
Forgiveness is a choice we make, and it's a choice that can bring freedom from anger and hurt. When we forgive, we're not saying what the person did was okay, but rather that we're choosing not to hold it against them. It's not about the other person, but about us and how we respond to the hurt they've caused. As a pastor, I've seen how unforgiveness can bring death into people's lives, whether it's through physical or emotional harm. When we're hurt, it's natural to feel angry or resentful, but forgiveness doesn't mean forgetting what happened. It means not letting that hurt define us or control us. I've taught my children that forgiveness is a process, and it may take time to work through our feelings. But when we choose to forgive, we're not only freeing ourselves from those negative emotions, but also giving the other person the opportunity to make things right. A genuine apology, where the person takes responsibility for their actions and makes amends, can go a long way in healing the hurt. As a parent, I've seen how important it is to model forgiveness for my children. When they're hurt or wronged, I encourage them to pray for the person who hurt them and to choose to forgive. It's not always easy, but it's a crucial part of growing in our faith and living out the teachings of Jesus. By teaching our children to forgive, we're helping them develop a heart of mercy and compassion, and giving them the tools they need to navigate difficult relationships and situations in life.
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meaning of marriage
timothy keller
power of a praying parent
stormie omartian
raising kids to follow christ
lee ann mancini
addictions a banquet in the grave
edward t welch
raising passionate jesus followers
phil diane comer
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robertson mcquilkin
practicing the way
john mark comer
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