Biblical Answer

Forgiveness: A Choice You Make

Forgiveness is a choice you make, not a feeling. It is not always easy, but it is a decision that can be made with the help of God. When we are hurt, our natural response is to lash out or become bitter, but this only leads to more pain and suffering. Instead, we can choose to forgive, not for the sake of the person who hurt us, but for our own sake. Forgiveness brings freedom and healing, and it allows us to move forward in our lives.

Prayer and Confrontation

Prayer is a powerful tool in the process of forgiveness. When we pray for the person who hurt us, it helps us to see them in a new light and to understand their humanity. It also gives us the strength and courage to confront them, if necessary. However, confrontation should not be done in a superior or disdainful way, but rather in a humble and loving way. This is not about winning an argument or getting revenge, but about seeking healing and restoration.

God's Forgiveness and Our Forgiveness

God's forgiveness is the foundation of our forgiveness. When we believe that God forgives us, it gives us the freedom to forgive others. We don't have to deserve it, just like we don't deserve God's forgiveness. Forgiveness is a core part of Christianity, and it is what makes us Christ-like. When we forgive, we are not only freeing ourselves from bitterness and pain, but we are also reflecting the character of God. As Scripture says, "Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you" (Ephesians 4:32). By choosing to forgive, we are choosing to live in the freedom and love of God. Jesus forgives, and he delights in forgiving. He is famous for his forgiveness, and it brings us joy and healing. As we learn to forgive, we will find that it brings us closer to God and to others, and it will fill our lives with love, compassion, and kindness.