Biblical Answer

The Pain of Unforgiveness

When a family abandons us, it can be a painful experience. It can lead to feelings of rejection, anger, and hurt. However, the Bible teaches us that unforgiveness can bring death into our lives. It can cause us to become bitter and resentful, leading to a breach in family ties. It is essential to forgive our family members, not for their sake, but for our own well-being.

Praying for Forgiveness

The Bible teaches us to pray for those we need to forgive. This can be a difficult task, but it is essential for our spiritual growth. When we pray for those who have hurt us, we begin to see them in a different light. We start to understand their pain and struggles, and our hearts begin to soften towards them. Forgiveness is a choice we make, and it is not based on the other person's actions, but on our relationship with God. We forgive because we want to be free from the weight of unforgiveness, and we want to honor God.

Breaking the Cycle of Unforgiveness

Forgiveness is not a one-time event, but a process. It requires effort and commitment from us. We must choose to forgive our family members, even if they do not deserve it. We must also choose to forgive ourselves for any perceived wrongs. When we forgive, we break the cycle of unforgiveness that can lead to a breach in family ties. We begin to heal and move forward, rather than becoming stuck in the past. By choosing to forgive, we can restore our relationships and build stronger bonds with our family members. Ultimately, forgiveness is a choice that brings life and freedom, rather than death and bondage. I encourage you to pray for forgiveness and to choose to forgive your family members, not for their sake, but for yours.