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how do i keep my family from falling apart?

Answer:

As a pastor and a husband, I can attest that keeping a family close requires determination and effort. My wife Susan and I have been married for 19 years, and we've learned that it's essential to prioritize our relationship and communicate with each other. When we face disagreements, we pray together, seek wise counsel, and listen to each other until we come to a common understanding. This helps us speak with one voice, even when we don't see eye-to-eye.

In addition to nurturing our marriage, we also make time for our children, Joshua and Rebecca. We initiate planning and activities that bring us together as a family, and we make sure to listen to their insignificant issues so they feel heard and valued. We also model how to disagree without being disagreeable, and we give them more yeses than nos to encourage them to share their thoughts and feelings. By doing so, we create a safe and supportive environment where they can grow and thrive.

As a family, we also have a mission statement that we read together daily. It reminds us of our values and encourages us to live up to them. By doing so, we create a sense of unity and purpose that helps us navigate the challenges of family life. It's not always easy, but with determination, prayer, and a commitment to each other, we can build strong relationships that will last a lifetime.

Sources:

raising passionate jesus followers
phil diane comer
power of a praying parent
stormie omartian
raising kids to follow christ
lee ann mancini
sacred marriage
gary thomas
old testament theology
waltke
meaning of marriage
timothy keller

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