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Your Question:
Can I still be a good parent if I'm going bankrupt?
Answer:
As a pastor and a father of two, I believe that being a good parent is not defined by one's financial situation. While financial stability can provide a sense of security for our children, it's not the only factor that determines our effectiveness as parents. My wife Susan and I have been married for 19 years, and we've had our share of financial ups and downs. However, we've always prioritized our relationship with our children and made sure to be present and involved in their lives. Bankruptcy, in and of itself, is not a reflection of one's character or ability to be a good parent. As the Bible teaches us, "there is therefore now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus" (Romans 8:1). What's more important is how we respond to our circumstances and whether we're willing to take responsibility for our actions. If a parent has been responsible and cautious, but still finds themselves in a difficult financial situation, it's not a reflection of their love or commitment to their children. Ultimately, being a good parent is about being present, loving, and supportive, regardless of one's financial situation. My son Joshua and daughter Rebecca know that they can always come to us for guidance and support, and we're committed to being there for them, no matter what. As a parent, it's not about having all the answers or being financially secure, but about being a source of love, wisdom, and guidance for our children.
Sources:
introduction biblical ethics
robertson mcquilkin
power of a praying parent
stormie omartian
philippians colossioan philemon
r kent hughes
raising kids to follow christ
lee ann mancini
the war on children
john macarthur
raising passionate jesus followers
phil diane comer
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