Biblical Answer

Forgiveness is indeed possible when we've been hurt deeply, but it's not always easy. In fact, it's often a very difficult and painful process. As Jim said, it's hard to forgive someone who has hurt us deeply. But the Bible teaches us that forgiveness is not only possible, but it's also necessary for our own healing and freedom. When we choose to forgive, we're not saying that what the other person did was okay, but rather that we're releasing the hold they have on us. Forgiveness is an act of self-defense, as Jim put it, a way to stop the fatal bleeding of resentment that can consume us if we hold onto it.

The process of forgiveness is not a one-time event, but rather a continuous process that requires effort and commitment. It's not something that we can do once and then forget about it. Rather, it's something that we need to continually work on, relinquishing our bitterness and anger towards the person who hurt us. This can be a hard and humbling process, especially when we're asked to forgive someone who has wronged us in a significant way. But the Bible teaches us that forgiveness is not just a moral obligation, but also a spiritual necessity. When we choose to forgive, we're not just freeing ourselves from the weight of resentment, but we're also allowing ourselves to be free from the grip of sin and darkness.

Ultimately, forgiveness is not about the other person, but about us. When we choose to forgive, we're not saying that the other person is okay or that what they did was okay. Rather, we're saying that we're choosing to release the hold they have on us and to move forward in freedom. As Jim said, forgiveness doesn't make the other person right, it makes us free. And that's a powerful truth that can bring healing and freedom to our lives. So, yes, forgiveness is possible when we've been hurt deeply, but it requires effort, commitment, and a willingness to let go of our bitterness and anger. But the reward is well worth it, as we experience the freedom and healing that comes from choosing to forgive.