Biblical Answer

The Best Way to Show Kindness

When it comes to showing kindness, it's essential to understand that kindness is not just about feeling friendly or pleasant. While a friendly manner and behavior can be a great starting point, it's not always enough. The Bible teaches us to "put on kindness and truth" (Proverbs 3:3), even when we don't feel like it. This means that we should strive to be kind, not just when it's easy or convenient, but also when it's difficult or uncomfortable.

In Proverbs 31:20, we see an example of someone who embodies kindness. This woman "opens her hand to the poor and reaches out her hands to the needy." She is not just kind when it's easy, but she also makes an effort to help those in need. Her kindness is not just a feeling, but a choice she makes every day. Similarly, in Proverbs 31:26, we see that "her teaching is on her tongue." She shares her wisdom and kindness with others, inspiring them to do the same. This is a great example of how we can show kindness in our daily lives, even when it's not always easy.

The Bible also teaches us that kindness is not just about how we feel, but about how we act. In Matthew 5:44, Jesus teaches us to "love our enemies and pray for those who persecute us." This is not always easy, but it's an essential part of showing kindness. When someone cuts us off while driving or slanders us behind our backs, it's natural to feel angry or hurt. However, as Christians, we are called to respond with kindness, not anger. By choosing to be kind, even when it's difficult, we can demonstrate the love and compassion of Christ to a world that desperately needs it. As the Bible says, "Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you" (Ephesians 4:32).