Biblical Answer

How do I know if I'm living in obedience to God's will, or just living by my own standards?

To determine if you are living in obedience to God's will or just living by your own standards, you must examine your motivations and actions. The Bible teaches that true obedience comes from a heart of surrender and submission to God's will, not just from a desire to follow a set of rules or regulations. If you are consistently seeking to follow God's standard and are willing to obey even when it's difficult or uncomfortable, that's a good indication that you are living in obedience to God's will. On the other hand, if you are only obeying because it's convenient or because you want to feel good about yourself, then you may be living by your own standards.

Another way to determine if you are living in obedience to God's will is to examine your priorities. Are you putting God's will above your own desires and preferences? Are you willing to sacrifice your own interests and comforts in order to follow God's lead? If so, that's a good indication that you are living in obedience to God's will. Additionally, if you are consistently seeking God's guidance and wisdom through prayer and Scripture, and are willing to submit to His will even when it's hard, then you are more likely to be living in obedience to God's will.

It's also important to note that obedience to God's will is not just about what we do, but also about why we do it. If we are obeying God's will solely out of a sense of duty or obligation, then we may not be truly living in obedience to God's will. However, if we are obeying God's will because we love and trust Him, and are willing to surrender our lives to Him, then that's a good indication that we are living in obedience to God's will. As the Bible says, "If you love me, you will obey what I command" (John 14:15). Therefore, if we are truly loving and trusting God, we will be willing to obey His will, even when it's hard.