Biblical Answer

Does God still love me after divorce?

The question of whether God still loves someone after a divorce is a common and sensitive one. As a Christian, it's essential to understand God's perspective on divorce and how it affects our relationship with Him. The Bible is clear in its teaching that God hates divorce (Malachi 2:16, NIV, 1984 ed.). However, it's also important to recognize that God's original intent was for marriage to be a lifelong commitment, and divorce is not His preferred option.

Despite the biblical teaching against divorce, it's crucial to acknowledge that God is a God of mercy and compassion. He can still work in a person's life even after a divorce, and He desires to restore and redeem them. As Leslie shared with you, God can still restore a marriage, but even if that's not possible, He is still God. His love for us is not conditional on our circumstances, including our marital status. In fact, the Bible says, "God is love" (1 John 4:8), and His love for us is unwavering.

In the midst of a painful divorce, it's easy to feel like God has abandoned us or that we've failed Him in some way. However, this is not the case. God's love for us is not based on our performance or our circumstances but on His character as a loving and merciful God. As we navigate the complexities of divorce, it's essential to remember that God's will is monogamy, and divorce is not His preferred option. Nevertheless, He can still work in our lives and bring redemption and restoration, even in the midst of heartbreak and pain. Ultimately, God's love for us remains unwavering, and He desires to have a personal relationship with us, regardless of our marital status.