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What happens when love turns to dust in our daily lives?
Answer:
As a pastor and a husband of 19 years, I've seen firsthand how love can turn to dust in our daily lives. When the initial infatuation wears off, and the reality of living together sets in, it's easy to lose sight of the deeper love that marriage is meant to be. We often settle for a shallow, affectionate feeling, rather than pursuing a deeper, richer love that comes from a genuine understanding and connection with our partner. Gary Chapman's concept of the "in-love phase" is a good reminder that this initial stage of romance is often an illusion. We think our partner is perfect, but as the years go by, we begin to see their flaws and imperfections. This is not necessarily a bad thing, though. It's a natural part of growth and maturity in a relationship. The key is to recognize that the love we have for our partner is not just an emotion, but a choice we make every day to love and cherish each other, even when the passion and romance have faded. In my own marriage, I've seen this play out. My wife Susan and I have been married for 19 years, and while the initial passion has given way to a deeper, more mature love, there are still days when I feel like I'm just going through the motions. But I've learned that it's on those days that I need to make a conscious choice to love and cherish her, not just for who she is, but for who she's becoming. It's a daily decision to prioritize our relationship and seek to understand the message behind the disillusionment that can creep in.
Sources:
mere christianity
c s lewis
history eschatology
n t wright
philippians colossioan philemon
r kent hughes
meaning of marriage
timothy keller
depression
edward welch
sacred marriage
gary thomas
addictions a banquet in the grave
edward t welch
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