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Your Question:
How do I explain this to my kids when I have no answers?
Answer:
You know, as a parent, it can be tough when our kids are struggling with something and we don't have all the answers. I've been there with Joshua and Rebecca, and I know how frustrating it can be. But I've learned that it's not about having all the answers; it's about being present and supportive. When they come to me with a problem, I try to get down to their level, look them in the eye, and ask open-ended questions like, "What happened?" or "How did you feel about that?" It's amazing how often just listening and asking questions can help them open up and share what's really going on. Of course, there are times when they just don't want to talk, and that's okay too. In those cases, I'll tell them that I'm happy to talk with them when they're ready, and that I'm there for them no matter what. It's not about having all the answers; it's about showing them that I care and that I'm there to support them. As a pastor, I've learned that sometimes the best thing we can do is just wait and listen for God's guidance. It's not always easy, but it's often the wisest thing to do. When Joshua and Rebecca were younger, Susan and I would often pray together as a family, asking God to give us wisdom and guidance as parents. And you know what? He always did. He still does. Even when we don't have all the answers, we can trust that God is working in our children's lives, and that He will give us the wisdom we need to navigate the tough times.
Sources:
raising kids to follow christ
lee ann mancini
raising passionate jesus followers
phil diane comer
power of a praying parent
stormie omartian
the war on children
john macarthur
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